Fighting Heartbreak

Got your gloves on? Great. Now take them off.

Heartbreak is inevitable. I mean, if it's meant to happen, it's gonna happen. Sorry but its already written. No need in exerting all that energy in a battle you cant win. Not to be a downer but if a situation isn't meant to be, no matter how much you want it, it's probably not going to work out in your favor. You can hope and wish on a star but you cant fight fate.

If it's early on in your situation and you've experienced too many issues to count, that is not a good sign. Probably gonna lead to some form of heartbreak only because you may be trying to make something work that's not supposed to. Now some people just take some adjusting to their new situation and I would hope that's the case most of the time, but just for the sake of this blog, (lol) we'll say that's rare. :-)

To me, it's not so much about fighting heartbreak as it is whether or not you will allow yourself to be happy...for now. If you knew your relationship would end in heartbreak, but you were happy now, would you risk it? Would you stop worrying so much about whats going to happen and just enjoy the present? That's a hard choice to make. Especially when you can never be 100% about the future.

I would venture to say, you're supposed to experience these types of things. Don't try to write your own book. Autobiographies are always lacking!!! Yes, no one wants to get their heart broken. But no one wants to never be in love either. So when faced with this dilemma I just ask myself this: Which one can I do most without??

:-)