New Shoes!

Mates are like shoes. If the shoe fits, wear it. Put those too expensive, small, tall, painful shoes down. Especially if u cant wear them OUT! There's a reason they're on sale. Either they're defective, so last fall, or everyone already has them.

Stop going for the NAMEbrand. People who go for what's hot can be sold ANYTHING. Be the person that makes the seller work for that commission and only buys what they came to get and can afford!

Pick the best shoe for all occasions. Ones you can wear anywhere and around anyone. Never settle for a "good" shoe you can only rock once! Keep browsing.

Once you get them, make them HOT! If theyre for you, that wont be a problem. And by then, ofcourse, everyone struggling in their shoes will want yours. But they wont be available anymore. Oops.

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I Just WANT You

I want you. Plain and simple. There should be no confusion with that statement. But lately I find that when you're real enough to even utter those words, people hear something totally different. Lol

Often I have experienced when you tell someone you like them or want them, they hear "I'm in love, want to get married, and have kids..." or my favorite "I NEED you". Pay attention. If I'm not going to keep it real, I'm not going to say anything at all.

I dont know where you guys get this stuff from. Dont ever confuse a want with a need because you will end up with neither. Just because someone wants you doesnt mean they will put up with nonsense to keep you around. Like, for what?

There is no power in somebody WANTING you. Especially when you dont even know what they want you for. Could just be to kick it sometimes and in that case you can easily be replaced.

Wants are disposable. Didn't you know?

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Through All Emotions

I love being my real self all the time. I dont see how you fake people change who you are given the situation. If I love you, like you, or dislike you, youre never going to be confused about it no matter what you say or do.

Learning to be myself through all emotions is a goal I am glad to have met. I no longer let my emotions determine my mindframe and reactions to other. Just because someone else decides to change who they are for an hour or whatever doesnt mean I have to.

A lot of times people have differences and feel as though they have finally seen "someone's true colors". But who is to say which side wasn't real? Maybe the asshole you are getting is temporary because the person doesn't know how to continue being themselves when upset or hurt.

I take pride in being able to seperate my feelings from my thoughts. Even though my heart may tell me to pop off, my mind wont allow me to display anything other than my true character. I wont allow someone else's shortcomings to provoke me into saying or doing anything I normally wouldnt.

It's not real to flip a switch on emotions. I just choose when and how I want to display them.

I think I have arrived :-)

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