Loop-De-La

Ever felt like someone had just thrown you for the silliest loop ever? The out of the blue, unexpected loop is my best friend. We go way back. Ive gotten used to the thrill of the take off, the fear of the downward slope, and the pain of the bar that left you hangin, when everything was put on hold.

The hell is going on here?

All I can say is dont be surprised by the loop. You knew you chose the rollercoaster instead of the tea cup ride. It's kinda like, what we do. Who wouldnt pick the fun, exciting ride?

What's funny is we forget how the loop goes. You gain a little momentum, you go a little up and down, and then BAM. You get the loop. This is the part where the ride sends you aalllll the way up and around, and then youre back down. And most likely, that ride is about to be over. Sad? I know.

We all know these rides last a split second. But that one loop is worth it all. I guess.

Now, do you wanna ride it again? Probably so. But this time, expect the loop. There's always a loop.

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Make The Dream Work

Busy is not always bad. Having a job is great. Maintaining a life is even better! Especially when it's your own.

I think the best relationships occur when both people allow the other to live. To do what you want, be on your own schedule, and still manage to have someone special is not easy for most.

I want someone with career and personal goals, as well as many hobbies and friends because that is what I have.

A lot of times you run across great people with a plan. They know what they want and where they are going and you may have to take a backseat to that. The appreciation they will have for you when they get there is greater than anything they could kinda give you right now.

There are many different paths to a single destination. The journey is just as important as the goal. Have your own story to tell.

Respect the dream. Become a team. It will work.

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Listening VS Watching

When it comes to new relationships, how do you know what lane to stay in? When do you know it graduated from just friends to more? Is it something he says or does?

.......I really wanna know lol....

I think all guys are different and it's not as simple as checking yes, no, or maybe on the paper anymore. Some words and actions mean more or less to different men. And because some men will do anything for the prize, what signs do you watch for?

I normally like to go by actions. But what if a guy is in a place where he cant show you what he normally would? Then ofcourse, you would listen to what he says. But what if he's a liar? Or he never says anything? Then do you take a little from both??

When does watching trump listening and vice versa?

Seems to me trying to figure out a man's mind is such a major no no! After a lot of illegal lane changes, I believe in "when you know, you know." Yes, it's cliche, but when you have to go through all this nonsense just to figure out if he likes you, he proooobably doesnt. Atleast not as much as you like him.

If he did, he would leave no room for questions. :-)

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You Aint Sh*t Too

For those who havent realized yet :-)

They say good women always go for the bad guys. For whatever reason we overlook the man who is doing or willing to do whatever we want for the guy who doesnt even think about 2/3 of those things. And time and time again we go for the buster, instead of the right man who has been there all along. There are several reasons for this, which i'll leave for another post lol

Now, there has to be a flip side. Some men look for the weak female. The insecure female. The bum female. The crazy female. I could go on but I have things to do. Anywho, it seems to be easier to deal with that kind of girl than an intelligent, beautiful, funny and confident woman.

Why stress, placing all your effort into one great woman, when you can spread it around to a couple subpar women and call them boo? Duh.

Here is my main point: If you are consistently choosing aint sh*t men, what does that make you? If you dont have the real standards and morals to choose the man you KNOW is better over the project you also KNOW you cant fix, doesnt that mean you aint sh*t too? Oh, okay.

Now this doesnt mean you arent smart, beautiful, funny, charming, etc... And all the things you believe you are. You're just not owning those traits yet and that is why those men KEEP PICKING YOU.

Once you really step into the role you have claimed, you wont be able to choose anything other than what's right for you. So pull yourself out of the aint sh*t pool, dry off, and try again. :-)

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