Get Your Destiny's Child on Today lol
Love will make you do things you've never done before. That's how I know when it's real. Yeah we've all had crushes and liked the hell out of people, but it's rare that you love. (or atleast it should be!) When you are truly happy with someone and you know without a doubt the feelings you share are real and mutual, you should have no problem showing it to the world.
So I say cater to your love. Make sure they're always happy in all areas. No matter who's around or who knows, you should be happy to cook, clean, and do whatever it is that makes them the most happy. Listen to their desires and make sure you are the one fulfilling them. No matter what it is, if you love someone whatever that is will make you happy too. Seeing someone smile or glow because of something you did is the best feeling in the world to me.
And I'm not gonna lie, it took me forever to be that way. But I believe you can only be that way with one person so I'm glad I waited til he got here. Now I'm not saying be rude to everyone you come across or date, but it's just some things and ways you should only show when you're in love. Keep some things sacred and private. When you're allowed to really be your complete true self, it makes it easier to give more.
Dont worry about what anyone else thinks of your actions because there is only one opinion that should matter. So today take some time to cater to the one that makes you happy. The one you feel you cant do without. Let them know how much you are willing to do to make them happy with you. Whether it's something simple or grand, the results will please you both.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Is It Worth It To Be Right?
Hey guys!
Just a lil bit of advice for ppl in relationships with two strong minded individuals and a past with arguments that lasted longer than your recollection of how they even began: let it go. Maybe in the beginning you wanna prove who's boss or your maturity level hasnt reached the revelation that some things are just not that important. No matter the excuse, you should get to a point where you've learned your partner and yourself enough to know when to bring out the white flag.
Being right doesnt always mean you win. You could push an issue so far into the ground that you have to leave your relationship there as well. Then you wish you would have never let it get to that point. Being stubborn and argumentative gets you nowhere in relationships or in life for that matter. Sometimes you have to take a step back and decide if being right means more to you than your partner.
Even if you know the other is wrong, it may not be your job to teach them that lesson. And majority of people will realize on their own if given the opportunity to think for themselves instead of being force-fed what you think should be their opinion. You may just have to, for the sake of peace and longevity, suck it up and let the other person be "right". (even if its only in their mind lol)
It gets to a certain point where you know you and your partner will bump heads and you can never agree on everything. Be prepared to take the backseat sometimes and remember no one is perfect. Mistakes will be made and arguing about who's right could be spent doin things to enhance your relationship, verses tearing it down.
Hey, even a broken clock is right twice a day! :-)
Just a lil bit of advice for ppl in relationships with two strong minded individuals and a past with arguments that lasted longer than your recollection of how they even began: let it go. Maybe in the beginning you wanna prove who's boss or your maturity level hasnt reached the revelation that some things are just not that important. No matter the excuse, you should get to a point where you've learned your partner and yourself enough to know when to bring out the white flag.
Being right doesnt always mean you win. You could push an issue so far into the ground that you have to leave your relationship there as well. Then you wish you would have never let it get to that point. Being stubborn and argumentative gets you nowhere in relationships or in life for that matter. Sometimes you have to take a step back and decide if being right means more to you than your partner.
Even if you know the other is wrong, it may not be your job to teach them that lesson. And majority of people will realize on their own if given the opportunity to think for themselves instead of being force-fed what you think should be their opinion. You may just have to, for the sake of peace and longevity, suck it up and let the other person be "right". (even if its only in their mind lol)
It gets to a certain point where you know you and your partner will bump heads and you can never agree on everything. Be prepared to take the backseat sometimes and remember no one is perfect. Mistakes will be made and arguing about who's right could be spent doin things to enhance your relationship, verses tearing it down.
Hey, even a broken clock is right twice a day! :-)
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