I love that kinda love
Im just saying, you ever had that kinda love with somebody that it doesnt matter where they are, what they're doing, or who they're with, you just know ya'll love exists. Yes lawd, that kind of love where you dont even have to say anything, you know they know what you mean. That kind of love where if you dont see them it doesnt matter, cause when you do...;-) That's special!
I used to be the girl that just had to talk to my boyfriend everyday :-/ I can admit this because like most girls, that's what we did in high school. You talked all night on the phone til you fell asleep, and they better be at your locker in the morning prepared to walk you to every damn class, sit with you at lunch, then wait with you til your bus came, and then talk to you all night long....again. I really dont know how i did that lol
Once i got older, it wasnt so extreme, but i did still want to talk to my boo atleast once or twice a day "so i knew everything was okay." I had to realize this just was a comfort thing; maybe even an insecure thing to be honest. I used to feel like he cant talk to nobody else if he's talking to me lol But I had to realize that dont mean not a damn thing! Ive sat next guys while they "check in" sooooooo yeah lol You dont want ya boo to have to call just to prove he's not doing anything wrong. That's lame.
Being a woman means being secure with yourself and your situation. You dont feel the need to check on him and make sure he's doing what he said or make sure he still loves you (cause it might have worn off over the course of the night :-/) If somebody loves you, they love you, period. Who cares what they do all day long. A woman also cherishes her alone time and doesnt need to be smothered with a guy. Once you know what you have is real, you dont need to worry about it. Although the situation may not be perfect, you know where you stand and in the end, they will still be right there. So relax bish! Real love aint going anywhere =)
Definitely needed those words of inspiration....I think we refer to that dude as 'kriptinite' gotta love it but at the same time love the time alone that makes you - you.
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