What's Romance?

Im not too sure!

Guess that's the problem huh? Yeah, i've had a few moments where a guy did something new or out of the ordinary that will always stay with me. But to be quite honest those numbers are few. What is it nowadays that i find myself asking for dates or spending most of my Friday nights with a bottle of Moscato because i dont even wanna waste my time with a guy im not interested in. I would rather "chill" by myself than with someone who acts like he doesnt know what a date is.

So what is the problem? Have dudes just gotten lazy? Have girls just gotten easy? Is it because of her that you think youre about to just skip the whole courting phase and just come to my house and "chill." That's just rude and immature. We are not in highschool, and in my opinion showing you really like someone is putting thought into showing them a good time, as well as getting to know them. Making time in your schedule to do something as small as going to get a couple drinks goes long way.

Is it too much to surprise a bish? To come up with something all on your own, eliminating the whole, "well what you wanna do? well what you wanna do?" conversation. Romance to me is just putting in some effort to give me a chance to get all pretty and not have to do anything but show up. Atlanta is so huge and there are so many things to do and some of them dont even cost money if that's the problem. The park is free fellas!

If your schedule is too much and you can never find the time. Come up with something else to make her smile. It could be as simple as some flowers or a card to tell her how you feel if you cant show her. If you're able, plan something she can do on her own like a spa day or even just picking up her favorite movies and candy. It really is the thought that counts and it really doesnt take much! And if you make her happy, she will make you happy. ;-)

*sigh* ....SMH