"Your self worth determines your net worth"
Today i wanna talk a little about self worth. And it doesnt have to necessarily be about a romantic relationship; this can be used in friendships and even your career. You have to know your worth people! You have to know what you deserve and know that there are people and places that are going to recognize that and treat you accordingly. You also have to be able to walk away from a situation that you believe is treating you like or offering you less than you deserve.
Knowing your self worth, to me, begins with figuring out what it is that you want. Whatever that is in a relationship or a friendship or even a career is important in choosing the right people to surround yourself with and the right jobs to take. Once you know what you want, you need to make sure all your ish is in order so you not asking for more than your giving. You have to work hard to show people youre worth that extra mile or that extra dollar. You cant be half steppin talkin bout how much you're worth. Sorry basic bish.
If youre doin what your supposed to be doing, it will be easy for someone to see your worth and make a decision to do whatever it takes to lock you in. And if they dont, it just means THEY werent worth it. This really irks me when looking for jobs. Some companies always wanna give you the minimum instead of recognizing your worth. Does a candidate with a degree and five years experience deserve 8 something an hour?? Kill yourself
All in all, in any situation, know your worth and be able to walk away from a situation that's not providing you with that. It may be hard to turn down a job you really need, or let go of any type of relationship you want to work, but you will feel better about yourself in the long run. In the future, this will leave you available for a better opportunity that may present itself. And dont worry, the people and places that are worth it, will come around. So start demanding more and you will get more. Good day :-)
Preach!!!!!!! I love It! I can truly say, Relationships are sometimes hard and challenging, but they are also learning experiences. It make take a while to acknowledge self worth/value, but once u do, it is a beautiful thing! Relationships+ life decisions will become a lot easier..
ReplyDeleteGotta know your fucking worth. Understood :)
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